Hello, I’m Suzanne.
I am a parent of two PDAers and I know some of the extremities that PDA parents can face because I have faced them, too. But, just because this parenting experience is often messy and extremely intense, I do not believe that our kids are the issue. Our neurology is not the problem. The issues felt within the family unit are due to an extreme lack of support, external issues and pressures of being expected (and often that expectation is on a deep, subconscious level), to show up and adhere to societal and neuro-typical norms.
I am not aware that there is a specific qualification that would capture all the information and knowledge that would qualify someone to take on this role of supporting non-medical sleep issues for our highly complex kids and so, as you can see below, I have gained my certifications and training through a wide variety of means from sleep neurobiology and behaviour science, child developmental psychology, PDA advocates and educators, Polyvagal Theory (The Science of Safety), autism-specific training, movement therapy, sensory and reflex integration. This is a field that is growing in it’s understanding and unlearning of old and inaccurate information. I believe that the role I am filling is new to the autistic community.
I am a proud autistic and ADHD advocate, I am trauma-informed and neuro-affirming.
I am a certified Infant and Family Sleep Specialist, trained postpartum doula, respectful parenting and neurodivergent advocate along with a homeschooling, unschooling mom to two young sons with a PDA profile of autism and ADHD. My kids are just like me: passionate about fairness and justice, nurturing to others, we enjoy novelty and impulsivity and thrive with rhythms and predictable flows. We can’t, and don’t even want to do routines - they are too imposing on our desire to be free. We also have a deep desire and need for connection - just like the vast, vast majority of all humans.
Most strategies and support methods that I found in the field of sleep support for this particular area of neurodivergence were missing the mark for the root causes and misinterpreting failures in the strategies with failures in parenting.
Podcasts
Nurturing Neurodivergents: This is a podcast that I co-host with Dr Jessica Guy, child development psychologist, Infant Sleep Scientist, where we talk all things growing up and showing up as neurodivergents.
The Weight of Parental Shame, conversation with Journeys With PDA
Teenage Sleep, burnout and circadian differences, conversation with Journeys With PDA
Speaker Appointments
Low Demand Parenting Summit, 2023
Little Zzzs Infant Sleep Summit, 2023
Published Articles
Training and Certifications
Completed Certification and Training:
“Foundations of Neurodiversity-Affirming Therapy”, 2024
Clinical Applications of the Polyvagal Theory with Stephen Porges, PhD: Trauma, Attachment, SelfRegulation & Emotions, PESI, 2024
The Neuroscience of Safety: The Transformative Impact of the Polyvagal Theory on Supporting Children on the Autism Spectrum, PESI, 2024
Kristy Forbes InTune Pathways with PDA, 2023
Introduction to Rhythmic Movements, Nurtured Young 2023
Certified Infant and Family Sleep Specialist, Dr Greer Kirshenbaum and Bebo Mia, 2021
CPR-C with Canadian Red Cross through Safe Beginnings 2021
Obstetric Violence 101 hosted by the Obstretric Justice Project
Trained Postpartum Doula with Doula Canada 2020
International Criminal Records check 2019
Positive Connections Parenting course with REACH 2019
BSc. International Relations 2006
Current training
University of Michigan, Sleep: Neurobiology, Medicine and Society
PESI Clinical Applications of Polyvagal Theory in Trauma Treatment with Stephen Porges & Deb Dana: Integrating the Science of Safety, Trust, Self-Regulation and Attachment
PESI Certified Autism Spectrum Disorder Clinical Specialist Intensive Training (ASDCS) - 2nd Edition: Affirming Neurodiversity with Strengths- and Abilities-Based Interventions
Kelly Mahler, Best Practices for Implementing Interoception-Based Supports
Harkla, Primitive Reflexes - Master Level
Masterclasses and webinars attended:
Dr Naomi Fisher courses and webinars:
Demand Avoidance 101
Helping Autistic Children With School
Helping Your Autistic Child Develop a Healthy Relationship with Screens
Mona Delahooke, PhD masterclasses and webinars:
Highly Sensitive & Anxious Children
The Paradigm Shift in Parenting
The Pathway to Resilience
When You Feel Alone as a Parent
The Raising Humans Collective by Ashleigh Warner, Holistic Family Psychologist.
Webinars attended: Fundamentals (of child developmental needs),
Workshops: Beneath The Aggression, Beneath The Fear, Supporting Your Highly Sensitive Child
Masterclasses: Sleep, Daycare, school and attachment, Anger in Adults,
Dr Gordon Neufeld, Getting Bedtime Right
Harkla, (Occupational Therapy): Sensory Diet webinar
PESI, Techniques for After an Autism Meltdown: Supporting Prevention of Future Eruptions